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Psychic Energy Vampires
I've ceaselessly used the phrase "psychic vampire," or "energy vampire" to explain an individual who extracts energy from others in order to survive in their world. We have all heard of vampires, who feed on the blood of others. The psychic vampire feeds on the energy of others. Nonetheless it just isn't normally a conscious endeavor.
Narcissistic action is really an "unconscious" behavior. The perpetrator will not be usually aware of how his actions are affecting others. Quite the opposite, the perpetrator typically feels he's the one being victimized. Narcissistic persons are usually energy vampires.
How does one know when his/her energy is being harvested? It's really quite simple. Just be aware of how you're feeling round different people. Start making mental notes. Some people will leave you feeling pleased, energized, or nurtured. Others will go away you feeling drained, tired, depressed, angry or confused in some way.
If the person who leaves you feeling tired and drained has this have an effect on on you more often than not than they are likely an energy vampire. You may enter the interaction or dialog feeling good about something and in the course of the course of the dialog you're reworked into feeling bad. For example: Say you just bought a big promotion at work and you're really excited. You go dwelling from work and you might be high with excitement and share the nice news with your partner. He listens to you talk about your promotion and then says something like "Good for you! Hey did you take my blue water bottle this morning?"
O.K. his words weren't obviously cruel or condemning. He even said "good for you!" But someway you feel that you haven't been heard and that he doesn't really share in your excitement. In fact it seems more that he may care less. You are feeling a plummet in your energy and suddenly you aren't feeling very excited anymore. It's possible you'll reply by saying "No I have never seen your blue bottle!" And...he goes on to focus on the bottle asking you if you're certain you did not take it because you could have a habit of taking his stuff, etc.
The celebration of your promotion at work was minimize very short. In reality if you want to celebrate at all you'll need to call a pal who really cares about you and your good news. But by now you might not really feel much like celebrating. Chances are you'll feel that your promotion really isn't that big of a deal after all. Especially since the individual closest to you doesn't seem to think it is.
Everytime you feel a sudden plummet of your energy whether or not from a buddy, an acquaintance, a co-worker or a spouse or partner, you might be dealing with a psychic energy vampire.
A psychic vampire just isn't necessarily a psychic particular person however somewhat somebody who preys on the psychic energy discipline around a person.
I'm very sensitive and read energy quite easily now. However up to now, I didn't know sufficient about this sensitivity to be able to interpret what was going on with me and why I typically felt drained when around a lot of people, or certain people especially. Now I'm fairly aware of what's going on around me and know when to depart a room or a situation.
I meet plenty of psychic vampires who appear to be just regular individuals going about their business. But here is what I notice. These type of individuals appear to want something from me. I notice the conversations are usually one sided the place they are doing all of the talking and I am doing all of the listening. There is no true interaction. If I attempt to relate or share something about myself pertaining to the conversation, I feel as if I'm not at all heard. My contribution is passed up as they continue their conversation as if I have never said a word.
Once I ask myself what the intention of those individuals could be I see they're looking for admiration, approval, positive feedback, are trying to sell me something or get me to imagine something. If I start to really feel irritated, drained, or tired, I instantly excuse myself and depart the conversation.
In healthy relationships we feed each other. We share energy. One in every of us is perhaps feeling down and the opposite can encourage us and say things to support us which can bring us up. Different times we are those helping and encouraging the other. It is a give and take energy alternate that's mutually beneficial. Nonetheless with energy vampires, there is no such thing as a give and take, only take. They have no energy in their own reserves to give.
A psychic vampire or energy vampire is an emotionally and spiritually depleted individual. He doesn't have an inside life and is not spiritually linked to life. He has spent his life extracting energy from the outside instead of learning the way to go within and cultivate his own internal garden.
Think of the human body and its need for vitamins and minerals. Our bodies have the ability to fabricate most of what we want from within if given the proper nutrients and building blocks. But as an example a person eats nothing but junk meals after which takes plenty of vitamins. He is relying on this external substance to feed him instead of feeding his body healthy substances that build his body on a mobile level. If he really wanted to be healthy he would learn that he wanted to cleanse out all of the toxins which have been accumulating from years of bad eating and then begin taking in high nutrient dense meals to rebuild his body.
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